Gifts for couples
Searching for a Christmas present for a couple you can both enjoy on the big day? Our sex toys for couples and cheeky games cover it all: vibrators made to be worn during sex, phone-controlled toys, erotic board games, massage sets and beginner restraint kits. Think of them as a gift you give each other, with extra closeness, giggles and heat over the festive break.
Buying for just one of you? Have a look at presents for her, presents for him, our vibrators for Christmas or sexy Christmas lingerie. Prefer a countdown? Open a little door every morning with an adult advent calendar, or browse the full range of Christmas present ideas.
Parcels leave us in plain, unmarked boxes, so nobody at the family get-together will guess what is inside. Get your order in early and make December a month you will both remember!
Sexy Christmas Presents for Couples: What to Buy When You Both Deserve a Treat
Not sure what to get your other half, and yourself, this year? The smartest couples' Christmas present is the one that has you both smiling on the day: a vibrator built to be shared, a toy you control from your phone, a naughty board game for a night in, a massage candle for a slow evening or a first set of silky restraints. All of it sits in the Gifts for couples range at lovesexshop.co.uk, a UK sex shop that sends every parcel in plain, unmarked packaging.
Between the shopping, the relatives and the roast, December rarely leaves much time for the two of you. A shared present fixes that. It gives you a reason to switch off the telly, pour something warm and rediscover each other, whether you met last spring or have been together for twenty years.
Start Here: Which Present Fits Your Relationship?
- Just started seeing each other: go playful with a saucy card game, dice or a massage candle.
- Together for years: shake things up with a wearable couples' vibrator or a restraint kit for beginners.
- Living in different cities: a toy with phone control, so your partner can join in from anywhere.
- Shy about toys: a vibrating ring, a massage set or a game that starts with talking.
- Already experienced: a high-end connected vibrator, a remote knicker vibe or a larger restraint collection.
- Hopeless romantics: candles, oils and lace lingerie to unwrap together.
Couples' Present Finder at a Glance
| What are you after? | Our pick | Why it works |
|---|---|---|
| Shared pleasure in bed | Wearable couples' vibrator | Both of you feel it at once |
| A naughty tease | Phone-controlled vibrator | One wears it, one steers it |
| Better stamina and buzz | Vibrating ring | Lasts longer and tingles for her |
| An evening in with a giggle | Saucy board game or dice | Dares melt any awkwardness |
| Candlelit romance | Massage candle and oil | Warm, slow and sensual |
| A first adventure | Beginner restraint kit | Soft cuffs, a blindfold, plenty of trust |
| Daily excitement | Adult advent calendar | A fresh surprise each morning |
Our 8 Favourite Presents for Two
- Wearable couples' vibrator: hugs the body during sex and buzzes for both of you. Our bestseller among shared toys, with names like We-Vibe and Satisfyer.
- Naughty board game: dares, forfeits and flirty questions that turn a quiet evening into a proper date night.
- Massage candle and oil set: the wax turns into warm oil you can rub in while the lights stay low.
- Vibrating ring: a tiny gadget with a big effect, helping him last longer while she gets extra stimulation.
- Remote-controlled knicker vibrator: a secret for two, tucked in underwear and controlled by a small handset.
- Beginner restraint kit: soft cuffs, a blindfold and a tickler for a gentle first go at dominance and surrender.
- Discovery box for couples: several toys in one package so you can find your favourites together.
- Adult advent calendar: twenty-four small surprises to open side by side. Take a look at our sex toy advent calendars.
Couples' Vibrators Explained
A vibrator for couples is shaped to work on both of you during intimacy. The best known style is a soft C or U curve: one arm sits inside, the other rests against the clitoris, leaving your hands free. Most models recharge by USB, handle splashes in the shower and have several speeds. If this is your first sex toy for couples, it is a dependable choice that rarely ends up in a drawer. Pick a softer silicone shape if either of you is sensitive, and a stronger motor if you like deep rumbling sensations. Want to treat yourself as well? Explore our Christmas vibrators.
Long Distance Couples: Play Across the Miles
Apart over the festive season, or just back from different trains? A connected toy lets your partner set the pace through a phone app, even from another country. For long distance couples it is perhaps the most thoughtful gift going, because a video call becomes something you share physically as well as emotionally. Set it up before the day itself, test the app together and you can surprise each other the moment the kids are in bed or the train has pulled out.
Naughty Games for Couples: Giggles First, Heat Second
Not every present needs a motor. Erotic games for couples, such as board games, dice and dare decks, are ideal if you want to loosen up without any pressure. They are fun to unwrap, great for the Boxing Day lull and a clever way to learn what the other person secretly fancies. Many games come with simple rules and short rounds, so you can play one round before dinner or stretch it into the small hours, and the dares can be as mild or as spicy as you like.
Massage Sets: A Gift of Time
If the season feels frantic, give each other an hour. A massage candle melts into skin-safe oil, and our sets add feathers and soft extras for a slow, unhurried evening. Put on a playlist, dim the lights and let one thing lead to another. It is the most romantic idea here, and perfect for couples who like tender over bold.
Restraint Kits for Beginners
Intrigued by a little power play? Our beginner bondage sets contain soft cuffs, blindfolds, ties and ticklers that are comfortable and simple to use. Talk it through beforehand, choose a safe word and never rush. Many couples find that giving up control for ten minutes, or taking it, is exactly the change of pace a hectic year calls for, and the gear is gentle enough that nobody ends up with a mark.
Complete the Present: Lingerie and Treats for Each of You
Couples' presents work best when you add something personal. Pair a shared toy with an outfit from our erotic lingerie for Christmas, a treat from the gifts for women collection or a surprise from our gifts for men. For even more ideas, our Christmas gift ideas category gathers every festive favourite on one page.
Seven Tips for Picking Well
- Think about both of you: choose something that excites you equally, not a present for one side.
- Begin gently: a ring or a small vibrator is a friendly first step.
- Mind the fit: flexible, adjustable designs suit most bodies.
- Choose safe materials: medical-grade silicone is smooth, hygienic and simple to wash.
- Rechargeable beats batteries: no scrambling for spares on Christmas night.
- Pack the lube: a water-based one suits silicone and makes everything feel better.
- Hint or surprise: either can work, as long as you know your partner's comfort zone.
Plain Packaging and Brands You Can Trust
Every parcel from lovesexshop.co.uk comes in an ordinary box, with no logo and no clue about the contents, so the surprise survives even a houseful of relatives. We stock verified labels including We-Vibe, Satisfyer, LELO and Svakom, all made from body-friendly materials.
Your Questions About Couples' Presents, Answered
What should I buy my boyfriend or girlfriend and myself for Christmas?
Pick something for two: a couples' vibrator, a phone-controlled toy or a saucy game. A present you both use means nobody feels left out.
What exactly is a couples' vibrator?
A bendy, rechargeable toy made for use during sex. One part nestles inside her, the other presses on the clitoris, so you both pick up the buzz.
Which sex toy should a brand new couple try first?
Keep it gentle: a vibrating ring, a flirty card game or a massage candle. All are simple, friendly and need no experience.
Is it weird to give a sex toy as a Christmas present?
Not at all. Millions of couples do it. Hand it over in private with a cheeky note and make it clear it is for the two of you.
How can we get the spark back after years together?
Change the scenery. Try a wearable vibrator, a game that sets small challenges or a restraint kit, and book a proper evening in.
What suits a long distance relationship best?
A toy you can control by phone. Your partner steers the settings from miles away, which turns a video chat into a hot date.
Do erotic games really work for couples?
Yes. They get you laughing and flirting first, and they make it easier to share fantasies without a serious conversation.
We already own a few toys. What else could we try?
Look at upgrades: a remote-controlled knicker vibrator, a premium We-Vibe or LELO model, or a bigger restraint set.
Is bondage safe for beginners?
With soft cuffs and a blindfold, yes. Agree a safe word, check in often and stop the moment either of you wants to.
Can I use condoms and lube with couples' toys?
Yes. Silicone toys pair best with a water-based lubricant, and condoms can be used as normal if you want them.
What can I give that is romantic but not too rude?
A massage candle with oil, a sensual massage set or a lace lingerie outfit. They set the mood gently.
Does an adult advent calendar suit two people?
It does. Open one together each day of December and the anticipation builds nicely towards Christmas morning.
How do I hand over a sex toy without feeling awkward?
Tuck it in a stocking or a gift bag with a funny card. Laughing together is the best icebreaker.
Are these toys body-safe?
We sell trusted brands only, and the toys are made from skin-friendly materials such as medical-grade silicone. Wash them before and after each use.
Will anyone see what is in my parcel?
No. The box is plain, with no logo and no description of the contents on the outside.
When is the last sensible moment to order?
Sooner is better. Couriers are swamped in the last fortnight before Christmas, and checkout shows the delivery options for your address.
Give Each Other Something Worth Unwrapping
The presents people remember are not the ones that gather dust, they are the ones that bring two people closer. Browse our sexy Christmas presents for couples at the lovesexshop.co.uk online shop, choose something that makes you both grin and enjoy a festive season full of fun, warmth and each other.
